Monday, 23 April 2018
Working out how to bloom here. What can I contribute? Where can I fit in?
It's always tricky starting in a new place. How can you contribute while avoiding stepping on toes? I vacillate between waiting to get to know people better before offering something, and just jumping in and seeing what happens.
We all have something to offer. Sometimes you have to fail at a few things to find out what works.
Friday, 20 April 2018
There are just a few things that need to fall into place for us to properly settle and move forward.
I'm getting antsy waiting for my art supplies. By the end of next week my studio should be full of boxes. I can see a lot of sorting in my future for next weekend, and after that, lots and lots of layers!
Wednesday, 18 April 2018
I find that I'm thinking about getting to know people. It must be on my mind because it's turned up twice in my art journal now. Let's face it, when you move to a brand new place one of the first things you want to do is connect with like-minded people and get involved in some sort of community.
How is 'crossing paths' about getting to know new people?
Well, the more I put myself out there and cross paths with the same people, the more I get to know them, and they me. Sometimes these crossings will happen naturally, like at church on Sunday. But other meetings will need to be orchestrated. In other words, you have to work at it.
Monday, 16 April 2018
Forging new links. Now begins the hard work of heating, annealing, shaping, forging, soldering.
It always takes time to get to know new people. It's hard work but worth the effort. And there are so many people to get to know!
Some people find it easy to make new friends. For others it takes time. I'm one of the latter. I know it will take me a while to find my feet and open up. It always does. But I have learned over the years how I best get to know people, so there will be a few choc 'n' chat nights in the coming months. I've found that gathering a small group of women around a table with a plate of home made truffles is one of the easiest ways for me to learn and share with others.
How do you plunge into the hard work of getting to know new people?
Friday, 13 April 2018
Wednesday, 11 April 2018
I've been trying to do more male faces recently. I have a little sketchbook with me - smaller than I'm used to so it has sometimes been a challenge to draw small enough. That's why some of the faces aren't complete :)
These are all done with coloured pencils and using magazine photos as references.
Sunday, 8 April 2018
The distance may have been great, but the connections still hold.
Though we were in South Australia for eight and a half years, we still kept up friendships in the UK. This week my husband will be installed in our new church and lots of lovely people that we haven't seen for all that time will be travelling to join us. We are so looking forward to seeing those old friends who didn't let the vast distance become an excuse to drift away.
Friendships take time and effort to get off the ground, but those that have been going for years can be kept fresh and alive with a text, a tweet, a short email or postcard every now and again. How lovely it is to meet up with people you haven't seen for ages when it feels like the time between falls away and those connections are still strong.
I am steeling my introvert self for Thursday, but looking forward to all the reconnections.
Friday, 6 April 2018
Wednesday, 4 April 2018
Silly me. I thought computers were supposed to make things easier, but it is not always so. Sometimes people don't fit the boxes.
Our move across the world has necessitated lots of paperwork. A lot of that paperwork is designed to be done online. Some of it has worked with no problems. Other parts of it have been like pulling teeth! Sometimes you just want to walk into an office and talk to a real person because you just don't fit into the boxes. For example, a lot of the paperwork we have had to do requires you to put in your last address. Of course, we last lived in Australia, but the computer form doesn't allow for a foreign address. It wants to look up the address using the postcode and deems our perfectly legitimate Aussie postcode as invalid. And there's no box to write an explanation, so we're back to snail mail (which I'm not averse to), but the bureaucrats want everything done online, so everything now takes three times as long.
Whoo. Rant over.
Monday, 2 April 2018
Heat, light, and water are necessary for growth.
Where do we get them from?
Who in your life provides you with these necessaries? There are people who bring refreshment to our lives like a cool drink on a hot day. They allow us to take in the light, not shading us, but standing alongside. They bring warmth into our lives and cause us to grow.
Who blocks out the light, sucks up the water, denies the heat? We all know people who are the opposite of those growth-promoting people. They don't like others to be in the limelight and will do anything to overshadow them, seeking all the attention. They suck you dry instead of watering you. They deny you warmth, turning the cold shoulder when you don't fall in with their plans.
Seek out - and be - growth-promoting people.